http://www.afabulousmess.com/2008/05/06/the-only-thing-that-matters/ Because life is never perfect... and it's fine. Thu, 07 Aug 2008 23:26:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 http://www.afabulousmess.com/2008/05/06/the-only-thing-that-matters/#comment-8022 Chip on the ol' shoulder Thu, 08 May 2008 02:22:30 +0000 http://www.afabulousmess.com/?p=534#comment-8022 you don't have to justify your decisions to anyone but yourself. the opinions that I had expressed are based on experience and observation. i am impressed that it has hit a nerve. when you put yourself out there for the world to read you must accept challenging opinions. i am not your friend nor did i call you stupid. i just wanted to get you thinking. and if you don't post for public approval then you wouldn't suddenly be so defensive about your decisions. I would think that you shout out for the world to hear. i find the sudden secrecy rather ironic. you'll blurt out any other personal matter until someone challenges it, then it is hush-hush. since you have no regrets please enlighten me. I would love to know what a girl must do to get a guy back. where did he find the love? did he lose it with his keys? or did he leave it in a hotel? I didn't realize that you can misplace love. hopefully he's just absent-minded and loses things but finds them quickly. like me. i always lose my clipboard at work but eventually i find it again. Luckily that clipboard never gets up and walks away from me. you don’t have to justify your decisions to anyone but yourself. the opinions that I had expressed are based on experience and observation. i am impressed that it has hit a nerve. when you put yourself out there for the world to read you must accept challenging opinions. i am not your friend nor did i call you stupid. i just wanted to get you thinking.
and if you don’t post for public approval then you wouldn’t suddenly be so defensive about your decisions. I would think that you shout out for the world to hear.
i find the sudden secrecy rather ironic. you’ll blurt out any other personal matter until someone challenges it, then it is hush-hush. since you have no regrets please enlighten me. I would love to know what a girl must do to get a guy back.
where did he find the love? did he lose it with his keys? or did he leave it in a hotel? I didn’t realize that you can misplace love. hopefully he’s just absent-minded and loses things but finds them quickly. like me. i always lose my clipboard at work but eventually i find it again. Luckily that clipboard never gets up and walks away from me.

]]> http://www.afabulousmess.com/2008/05/06/the-only-thing-that-matters/#comment-8020 lisamechelle Thu, 08 May 2008 00:07:06 +0000 http://www.afabulousmess.com/?p=534#comment-8020 I don't think you post for public approval, but I'm going to put my two cents in, anyway. When my husband and I got together, he did some things that made my friends call me stupid. Long story short, we're together 11 years strong, and those friends aren't my friends anymore. You have to do what makes you happy in life. What it all boils down to is, are you happy when you lay your head down at night? If you are, everyone elses' opinions don't matter. I don’t think you post for public approval, but I’m going to put my two cents in, anyway. When my husband and I got together, he did some things that made my friends call me stupid. Long story short, we’re together 11 years strong, and those friends aren’t my friends anymore. You have to do what makes you happy in life. What it all boils down to is, are you happy when you lay your head down at night? If you are, everyone elses’ opinions don’t matter.

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